You Can't Control Your Hand Unless You Stack the Deck

Self-hatred fuels the black hole of longing. Can we postulate a law of emotional thermodynamics in which lack of self esteem is inversely proportional to the degree of neck pain one experiences from turning one's head every which way but straight ahead? Conversely can we hypothesize that the degree of self worth one experiences is directly proportional to the ability to want what one has? This is not to say that desire and particularly the desire for change are paraphilias. But there is a qualit...